My Comfort Person, My Bestfriend

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 For Janina “kimsoy” Nivera, my Best friend!

Janina has been my best friend since Grade 1. We literally grew up together. From being little girls who didn’t know anything about life to becoming young women trying to figure everything out, we’ve been through so much side by side.


I’ve seen her at her happiest even at her lowest especially those hibi moments because of boys. And of course, we can’t forget “matyow” HAHAHA. I’ve seen her cry, overthink, and question herself. But I’ve also seen how strong she is. She may break down sometimes, but she always find a way to stand up again. And I’m so proud of her for that.


She’s such a soft girl ,gentle, kind, and pure-hearted. Sometimes too kind to the point that people take advantage of her. She don’t always stand up for herself, even when she should. There were moments when I had to be the one to speak up for her, to say the things she were too soft to express. And I’ll always do that. I’ll always protect her the way she protect me and everyone else.


Thank you for always supporting me in everything my decisions, my dreams, my random thoughts, and even my emotional breakdowns. She is the real one. She’s my comfort person, my crying shoulder, the one who know me a lot. She’s my best friend forever. She’s the only person I keep coming back to, the one I always run to, again and again. Even if I get annoyed sometimes because she keep repeating the same stories or making the same mistakes, but I never leave her. I may get irritated, but I stay for her. 

 

Janina, always remember to be yourself. Be your own voice. Speak up. Don’t let your kindness make you small. You deserve to be heard and respected. 


I will always support her, but I also want her to stand confidently on her own because she’s stronger than she think. Even we’re not schoolmate anymore, but still her. I will always support and I will always be proud of her.


Since Grade 1 until now, and in all the years to come still it’s her. And it will always be her.


I love her so much!


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